Saturday, October 25, 2008

What I love about Michael


Since Michael has "left" for his mission, I wish to express my gratitude for him. We love him with a pure and tender love and feel so blessed to have him as our son.

I am so grateful for a son who is kind and loving and sensitive. I am grateful for his ability to laugh and enjoy life. I am thankful for his fun loving nature and for his ability to find joy in life. He loves to tease and joke and play around.

I am grateful for his unique talents and abilities. Michael has always been incredible with children. He has great patience with them, and works well with them. Our granddaughter, Addie loves him so much and would rather be with him at this point than with her grandparents. One of his jobs at the YMCA has been to work with local children as they learn basketball, soccer, sports in general, etc., He is a natural with ALL children. I have always told Michael he will be a GREAT father because he loves children so much!


I am grateful for Michael’s goodness. He wants to do the right thing and has been willing to serve wherever he is needed. In our small church branch, Michael has usually been the “substitute” whenever one is suddenly needed. He has been a relief teacher in Primary, and nursery quite often.

I am grateful for Michael’s willingness to serve. His last church calling was as a branch missionary. He has gone on MANY splits with the Elders. He has learned much from them and their examples.

I am grateful for Michael’s desire to cleave to his family. He has always had an internal need to know where the members of his family are, what time they will be back, when they are home, etc., The biggest sacrifice he will experience while on his mission is missing his family. One of his greatest wishes before his mission was to meet his future sister-in-law Sarah before he left. Thank you Ryan and Sarah for making that happen!

I am grateful for Michael’s love for the gospel. Michael’s major desire before his mission was to attend General Conference. We were able to fulfill that dream and he was so grateful and said it was one of the best weekends in his life.

I am grateful for Michael’s enthusiasm. He seems like a quiet child (he even has a label from his aunt, “The perfect child”), but he can hoop and holler when he watches football. He has a great love for football (especially college football) and we will miss his excitement for the game.

I am grateful for Michael’s perspective. He injured his shoulder (big time) playing football (the guy who injured it is now an Ohio State football player) and had to have surgery on it and forfeit playing High School football. His perspective was amazing (for one so young). He told me “Mom, I think I am supposed to learn something from this”, and also said “I know this trial will make me stronger.”

I am grateful for Michael’s compassion. He has a special friend in our village named Jake. Jake has down’s syndrome and has a hard time fitting in. He is about 16 and goes to school with the other kids his age. Jake was always calling our home and asking if Michael “could play”. Michael was truly a friend to Jake and Jake knew it! They would go play basketball together, go to the YMCA and swim, play video games in our attic, watch movies together, etc., I really believe Michael understands how special Jake is. I am grateful for Michael’s example in this area!

If I could describe Michael in several words, the first word I would use is that he is valiant. He has shown courage in many situations of standing for the right. He has been an incredible influence and an example to many, many people in our community. It has not been easy for him in many circumstances living in the mission field, but he has been strong and valiant and has overcome what he has needed to overcome.

I would also describe Michael as family-oriented. He loves the sociality of a family and loves being with his family. He loves the closeness and togetherness of a family.

I know so many of you love and appreciate Michael also and are praying for his success as a missionary. Thank you for your kindness to him and to our family!

Well, you can tell how much my heart is involved in this bittersweet moment in a mother’s life when she lets her missionary go. The main emotion I am feeling however is GRATITUDE (roller coaster high) to God for blessing me in such incredible ways!

A "modern" family portrait




Our family picture (with Aunt Missy in it). Addie our granddaughter was in bed!
Hey, it's the best we could do for two years!

Michael with family on the day before he entered the MTC




Michael went out to lunch with family (thanks mom and dad) and were able to have a fun memory of being together.
I love my family!

Michael at the MTC with Jeffrey and Jennifer




Jeffrey, his girlfriend Jennifer, and Michael's Aunt Missy were able to drop Michael off at the MTC. We are so grateful they could do this. Thank you to all three of you. You are very loved!

Saying goodbye to Michael at the Dayton airport



Wow! I’m a missionary mom again. I count it as one of my greatest privileges and blessings in life! There is nothing else like it! My heart swells with gratitude and love. This week has been an emotional roller coaster. I have such thanksgiving in my heart for Ryan finding Sarah (thank you Missy) and for the fulfillment of their anticipated engagement. I honestly couldn’t have hand picked anyone more wonderful than Sarah. I feel the same way about my son-in-law Marc. I never knew I could love others like I love my own children, but I do and it’s wonderful!

I am so grateful for Ryan and Jeffrey and Marc who have served a mission. I am so grateful for Michael who has made that decision and is just at the commencement of his mission. My life has been blessed in countless, amazing ways because of my son’s (including Marc) decisions to serve missions.

We dropped off Michael at the Dayton airport on Monday, October 20th 2008. We had a delicious breakfast beforehand (which is a tradition in the Davis family). I must say we all (Lynda, William, Michael and Tanner) cried many tears. It was so hard to say goodbye. (This was the downward spiral of the roller coaster.) Michael did not go to college before his mission so his leaving seemed very abrupt to us. Although it was difficult to say goodbye, our gratitude is so much greater than our sorrow and deep inside it feels so right. A missionary mom recently wrote to me about the idea that the Lord can do more with your son in 2 years than a mom can do in the first 19 years, it’s so true! I am so grateful he has the opportunity to serve the Lord (and others) and learn more lessons about humility, relying on the Holy Ghost, charity, and focusing on the Atonement of Jesus Christ. I am so grateful he can lead others to Christ. What more could a mother want for her child?

Michael was so ready to go on his mission and we have heard so many comments from others about how well prepared he is and about what a great missionary he will be. The woman who sat next to him on the airplane even called us and told us what a special missionary he was! It warms our hearts when we hear from others how special they think he is. Every mother joys in that. One of my favorite scriptures is found in 3 John, which says “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth”.

My feelings have been especially sentimental lately. It has been such a privilege to be a mother of four sons and one daughter. “My cup runneth over”.

Michael - on the day he was set apart as a missionary




This is a picture taken right before Michael was set apart as a missionary. It was a great day! One of our good friends, President Dennis Smith set him apart. The Smith’s gave him the suit pin he is wearing in the video (below), which stands for “Endure to the End”. We all had dinner at their home after that. I was grateful Laura Lee, Marc and Addie could come. Thank you Marc and Laura Lee for being so influential in Michael’s life. He looks up to you in so may ways!

Video of Michael entering the MTC

This is a beautiful video that my son Jeffrey made for us. Jeffrey dropped off Michael at the MTC and we were so grateful to see it like we were there. This video goes right to our hearts!


Michael MTC Video from Jeff Davis on Vimeo.